Tea Ceremony
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This poem is from A Suitcase of Seaweed and Other Poems by Janet Wong. The poem comes from the section, “Chinese poems”.
Tea Ceremony
“This tea costs sixty dollars a pound,”
Grandfather announces, and grunts
as I begin to pour.
this is a signal
for Mother
to look at my free hand,
a glance that lasts
long enough to scold:
Two hands!
Like a puppet
I lift my left hand,
answering her silent command
to hold the lid down,
while my right hand
tips the teapot
toward Grandfather
in a slow, deep bow.
Two hands!
I feel all eyes watching
as I cradle
the old heat-cracked cup
in soft hands of respect,
holding it out to Grandfather
like an offering
to the gods.
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What does it mean to show respect to your elders in your family?
